My friend Alison met a fabulous guy at a dinner party Friday night named Jeff. In fact, she thought Jeff was so fabulous that she started to question the committed relationship that she was in. Her relationship felt difficult. Recently …
Do you lose yourself in relationships?
Too many women lose sight of their true selves as a trade-off for love or security.
It's a much more intoxicating, sexy thing to keep on being YOU than to simply become HIS.
Try these ideas on for size:
You are enough! Your feelings aren't too much. Your unique opinions and passion for life are magnetic...
They're what will make the right man fall in love with you - over and over again.
"Why doesn't he like me?"
Because he may not really know you.
HERE’S THE TRUTH
You have to know yourself first.
You have to be willing to be unapologetically YOU before he can genuinely love who you are.
I’ve been there.
Spending years apologizing for being me, chasing guys who had a mold I needed to fit.
Taking up habits I had no interest in.
Making my life about keeping him happy, and trying to prove to both of us that I was good enough.
But here's the truth: You're perfect & beautiful just the way you are!
Changing yourself for him is never, ever the answer.
The guy you really want is one who accepts & loves YOU - not the mask you put on for him.
Stop being careful. Stop adapting. You don’t need a man to feel good about yourself.
Empower yourself with your own authenticity.
So let me ask you
Are you ready to be un-shakeably self-confident?
Understand healthy boundaries, and how to receive?
Be your smartest, sexiest, most totally unapologetic self?
And learn what it truly means to be his most amazing partner?
Then step right this way, gorgeous. Let’s get to work.
I moved into my apartment on East 36th Street a year ago. Moving was supposed to be a fresh start. I had just returned from a 9-month journey in Thailand and Israel where I had become fluent in zen. The …